Feeling grateful this Thanksgiving

24 November 2022

2022 was a tough year for me. As I mentioned before, my sweet father passed away on August 20. I had moved him into assisted living in May. I spoke to him every day and he was a big part of my life, so I feel his absence keenly. And, as executor of his will, I’ve been kept very busy handling all the details of getting his affairs squared away.

In addition, as the power of attorney for my aunt (my father’s older sister), in 2022 I was heavily involved with managing her finances, moving her to memory care, then skilled nursing, and emptying and selling her home. All from 1500 miles away.

When I think of 2022, I think of all the effort and loss surrounding my elderly relatives. (That’s a picture of my father and my aunt taken on his 90th birthday, September 11, 2020.)

But there were many, many things for me to be grateful for this year. First and foremost, my wonderful friends, who have been such a great support all year. I was also very happy to be traveling again and enjoyed a wonderful week with my college pals over the summer. One of my brothers lives in Australia and he came to the Washington state for our father’s funeral. Then he flew back to St. Louis with me and we had a fantastic 2.5 weeks hanging out together.

On the work front, I had the opportunity to help a special client navigate a really complicated move. And, thanks to my wonderful employees I have been able to step away from most personal client work while still providing amazing organizing services to my clients.

I have so much to be grateful for. I’ve been trying to express my gratitude daily in my bullet journal and recently, after reading this article, Want to feel happier? Try snacking on joy, I’ve been jotting down my “joy snacks” every morning. It’s so nice to reflect on the little things that bring happiness.

I encourage you to take a little time during this busy time of year to take stock of what you’re grateful for and perhaps keep your eye out for the tiny things that bring you joy. It’s a sure way to put a smile on your face.

Tagged with: gratitude, thanksgiving