Backsliding

16 November 2006

In the organizing field, particularly for organizers who work with chronically disorganized people, backsliding is all too common. You leave a client with systems in place, skills transferred, attitudes and motivation high, and then you stop hearing from her. You try to contact the client and when you finally reach her she admits that she’s lost control again. She’s ashamed of this and rather than reaching out to get more help, she just doesn’t call. What she probably doesn’t realize is that this happens all the time and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

As I stare at cascading stacks of paper on my desk, I understand this all too well. I don’t think I’m chronically disorganized—though sometimes I feel like I am—but oh I struggle with the piles. At this moment, I have a project I need to be working on and I can’t find the papers I need. They’re not in the appropriate file and I can’t immediately find them in the pile.

I’m a backslider. Sometimes my desk is beautifully neat; in fact, I try to make sure it is every night before I stop work. There’s a place for everything. But for whatever reason, I have a hard time making myself put things in their place. I love doing this with clients. But my own piles of stuff are a huge drag.

If you’ve experienced backsliding, where you get everything in place and before you know it it’s all messy again, take heart. It might mean that your systems aren’t right for you. But it might say more about your attitude and motivation than anything. I know what a pleasure it is to have a clean desk. I know for a fact that it helps my productivity. But I can’t get myself to maintain it all the time.

So right this minute, I’m tempted to turn a blind eye to my messy desk and start in on the writing project that’s on the top of my list. But I think my day will be more productive if I take 15 minutes and put everything away. When I write it like that, it seems like a no-brainer. So I’m going to try it. But first I’m going to take a picture of the mess.

messy messy desk

This desk was making me nuts.

Well, it took 30 minutes not 15. But at the end of that half hour, my desk looks like this.

Cleaned up desk

The cleaned up desk 30 minutes later

Notice that my cat, Joe, is unimpressed by the whole process.

I have to say that I’m feeling incredibly empowered. I can face my work with a clear head. I’ve accomplished something tangible. I made the right decision by taking the time to clear my desk. I’m going to try very hard to make sure it’s clean at the end of the workday. I’m on the road to the peace of mind I always crave.

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Comments

Well, Joe might not be impressed but I sure am! You’ve inspired me to start the archeological dig necessary to clean up my desk.

I knew my newly ordered workspace would be great to look at, but I didn’t realize just how much more motivation I’d have after completing the project. And, it didn’t take very long at all.

Thanks for the inspiration Janine!

Shannon Wilkinson November 17, 2006 02:41 PM

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Hello! I’m Janine Adams — a certified professional organizer based in St. Louis, and the creator of Peace of Mind Organizing®.

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